What do you think about Thai women?
Thai women, like women everywhere, are diverse and multifaceted individuals with unique qualities, talents, and experiences. They often embody a rich cultural heritage that reflects Thailand’s traditions, values, and modern influences. Many Thai women are known for their resilience, hospitality, and strong family ties.
In recent years, there has been increasing recognition of Thai women in various fields, including business, education, and the arts, contributing to the country’s growth and development. As with any group, it’s important to appreciate and respect their individuality rather than generalize based on stereotypes.
Add me to the list of men who think Thai women are the greatest thing that’s happened to them. I met my wife online in 2014. We started to Skype.
One of the first things she did was show me around her village. She made people smile and laugh everywhere she went. Then she took me to the school where she teaches. She’s a natural teacher. You could see it in the respect her students had for her. She was off on the weekends. She would go to her brothers house, where her mother lives.
She’d clean the house, wash clothes, cook, and take care of her elderly mother. This included almost daily trips to the temple. I did not think I could fall in love online, but Skype was different. I knew I loved her before I ever really met her. It was the happiest day of my life when I found out she loves me just as much. We were engaged in Thailand in 2015.
It took almost two years of jumping through Border Protection hoops to get her to the States. I expected there to be things about her that I didn’t know, or things about her that would change when she got here. There’s been nothing like that. She still goes to the temple a lot, and I go with her. We crack each other up daily. It’s truly a wonderful life.
It’s taken me some time to write this. I feel rather foolish. While I was in it for life, I was just a stepping stone for her. All was fine when I financed her every whim, and put her through school. As soon as I lost my job, she took all the money and ran to her rich friends that I did not like. If that was not enough, she stayed on to gaslight me, and drive a wedge between me and my family. She abandoned me for a year before I filed for divorce.
Now, she is attempting to take me for everything I have. She won’t destroy me. I don’t care about money. For her it is all that matters. I find the whole thing rather funny. We never had a bad day until she left. It was still the best 6 years of my life. I thought that keeping her in money would dull her love of it. I was wrong. I spoiled her. I truly don’t think she really cared for me much anyhow.
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What do you think about Thai women?
Overall I think they’re opportunists, money hungry people that you need to avoid to save your dignity and wallet. They have no concept of loyalty and just want to use men for money and sex and will jump from man to man. I have been cheated by too many Thai women that I understand they’re manipulative heartless people who I have no sympathy or respect for anymore.
I have been to multiple clubs where I’ve been given numbers by them when they lie they’re single when their bf was just a table away. I’m a pretty moral person so I don’t encourage cheating but it’s sad to see the culture become like this.
On the other hand, Thai girls from middle class and above backgrounds tend to be caring people for their friends. They also have more family values than westerners.
On the positive side, they can be fun loving and fashionable. Greedy, unfriendly and rude bitches on one side, respectful workers on the other side, many sweet ones too. Mostly depends on where you find them. Overall not intellectual and far too childlike in their development. However I think they are fundamentally kind people, and not evil as many people say. If you feel good to them they will sense that you are an okay person.
They beg you for money too much. I see this behaviour in almost all Thai women (not all, especially ones who think I’m “poor” because I’m from a “poor country”) and therefore not to be fleeced. If they don’t know your origin or think you are a farang they will always try to squeeze every baht from you. They will get you to pay for her, her friends, her friend’s kids, and so on.
I would avoid Thai women unless money isn’t important for you. Some Thai women will act like they are innocent while telling you about how their mom is hospitalized and their car bill payments are so high. Then they will get offended if you raise a suspicion that they maybe looking for handouts. Like, if you’re not playing for sympathy and future family support, why are you sending me these things?
Some will say ridiculous things like “I will return it in an hour”. Like b*tch if you want to borrow it for an hour, why do you need it from me? Anyway thai women aren’t that logical, so when they want to scam you there will be tells (more like 99% they are scamming you but anyway) Some women will borrow and return money then ask for money the next week hence keeping you perpetually waiting for them to repay you.
- Thai women (like all women) also love to keep a scorecard. Oh “that day” you said “that thing”. Me: <crickets> What thing? What day?
- Thai woman: “oh that day you said that i only care about money and i should go out with a 50 year old guy who can be her sugar daddy”.
- Me: “Oh that day, yeah i said that when i was annoyed after you misunderstood me when I said “i’m currently at work” as “i don’t want to talk to you” and you cut my videocall and blocked me for a few hours”
- Thai: “It doesn’t matter what I did.”
I honestly don’t know how Thais perceive Thai women. I suspect that Thai women are more honest to other Thais than they are to foreigners.
Last Friday, a thai woman I met at a bar and went to a nightclub literally robbed my phone. I took precautions by recording her video and sending her face to a friend, her full name (i insisted i add her on facebook messenger) and I found out her work location. These safeguards saved my very expensive phone because the police would never help in these cases. I think they are very short-sighted people.
A friendship with me is far more valuable than a phone because I’m generous and I would have spared no expense to arrest her had she not repented and returned my phone. There are many stories of Thai women being scammers. I also later partied with a group of Thai women after that event. They like you if you can speak Thai.
Now, if you want a casual or holiday girlfriend sort of relationship, I think you can consider a Thai woman. Thai women are very caring and will pamper you in a relationship. Being in a relationship with a Thai woman is a slice of heaven. They will test you and whine about random stuff like all women and dislike being controlled. On the negative side, they lie too much and treat men like walking wallets.
While I caution against long-term relationships with low-class women, Thai women are suitable for short-term relationships for all men with a pulse. Their “I don’t do <this>” usually means “I don’t do <this> with my unskilled boyfriend/ex/whatever”. However, rules don’t apply to you once the cries of “See-o” arise. They are down for whatever you can dream of provided you show them that you are sanuk and can handle whatever they throw at you.
They’re also promiscuous compared to South-East Asians, Indians and Chinese with a body count 3x or more than the Asian giants. Anyone fairly wise knows that doesn’t forebode well for marriage and pair bonding. They’re also not “sticky” in their relationships and will often leave once life starts getting difficult.
Thais in general, don’t like to be in uncomfortable situations – whether jobs or relationships. Thai people are also very likely to cheat. My farang friend’s entire friend circle (except me) has been cheated on. Can you imagine that happening in your country? I don’t know a single guy in my country whose wife has cheated on her husband.
So in summary, they are suitable for Thai men, okay for Western simps willing to support them and half their extended family or those with ”yellow fever”, unsuitable for Asian men who can look at home or elsewhere for better quality wives. However, the Asian man with a good and unruffled temperament can also handle a Thai woman.
I happen to not fall in this category, so I usually break up before the tipping point when a woman cheats happens. This flaky character of mine might be a good idea for other foreigners to adopt. Stay while it’s good, leave when it’s not. You don’t owe them anything when the relationship turns sour.
However, high class and well-educated and travelled Thai women are a catch for any man in my opinion. They are a blend of eastern and western cultures, less racist, less hungry after money and generally have good manners. These women usually won’t go out with foreigners anyway, so you’re still out of luck, my dear foreign reader. If you manage to get a high class Thai wife, consider me as part of your envious onlooker fanclub.
If you are willing to settle for a low class Thai woman I would suggest finding someone young and taking her under your wing, teaching her as you go along life.
I will give you a case study with myself. My current Thai girlfriend is a bit inconsiderate, I pay for everything. All she does is play videogames and act irresponsible. Sure, she’s hot, young, the chemistry is amazing. Ok, but let’s get more cerebral. Her promises for the future are for me, just promises. I expect her to rinse and leave me, just like most Thai women do to most foreign men. I don’t even know why i’m in it.
Maybe it’s for the loneliness, maybe it’s those 2 great weakness of man – hope and desire. My wiser self knows i’m just cuffing myself. I will probably escape when I get the chance. I hope not to get fleeced too much before that. If you find yourself in a similar situation, can you bail? Or will you keep sticking around in a dead-end relationship.
Can it is worth to make relation with a thai women at old age?
I’m 62 and in a relationship with a Thai lady who is 40. She’s never been married or had kids and works in a high government post, is college educated and very smart. She looks like she’s late 20s early 30s and is beautiful inside and out. It’s just hard to describe in words just how well she takes care of me. I’m a lawyer so I’ve had access to a higher classes of thai ladies than most of the mongerers who marry bar girls.
A very bad idea for a whole lot of reasons. The vast majority of these girls are very damaged and do not think like the “good thai lady” in any sense. Imagine your own family selling you into prostitution which is basically what happens with most of these girls while they are still underaged.
Nobody wants to talk about that or the psychological damage most of these girls suffer from being basically raped every night for money. Most never had the choice. The family decided for them. So if you want to get involved with one of these pretty young things then be prepared to be financially and emotionally taken to the cleaners and don’t think for a second you will matter to her beyond the thickness of your wallet. If you can date higher class thai women.
Those who say higher class ladies do not want western husbands are wrong. They don’t want the kind of typical westerner roaming the streets of Bangkok. There are definitely stereotypes that higher class Thai ladies hold about westerners and they aren’t good. They don’t want your money.. They want someone of status and standing. A westerner can fit that bill as well as a Thai with these ladies. Most just don’t. I know quite a few who do and are quite happy as am I.
Conclusion
I have lived in Thailand for almost 20 years. Came here as fresh graduate, worked and started my company here. I am not a person who is judgmental and always understand everyone if I am in their shoes.
I came across many types of Thai girls, good student, desperate student, normal office girl, mid level staff, manager level staff, executive level girl and occasional some desperate young girl who can sleep around to get immediate gains.
As same like every other society there is always good and bad in Thai society as well , but here I will talk about only most Thai girls towards love, life and moral values.
As a developing country, Thai girls are highly ambitious, and they compare the stardom actors and actress to themself and very much take it personal. They literally take all the creative drama on screens is real, what they read about local hyped news is real which always shows that if you are beautiful/handsome and rich, everyone respect you, no matter how they morally are degraded. Some famous guys talking openly their promiscuous behaviour and host making it sound cool and encouraging the society to follow that.
The same followed with girls also, many famous girls openly say how pride they are being promiscuous. It’s all messed up society. And most girls have grown up with that attitude, promiscuous is cool and fun, total sociopath society. The girl can introduce the guy to parents, friends and villagers with her sociopath running in background to destroy the guy anytime.
Most Thai guys know this, thats why they choose the girl very careful. Once my ex accidentally slipped her mouth and told me the real psychology of Thai parents, if their Son is getting married, all the family members(especially elder women) from boy side screen the girl very carefully about her behaviour and any hidden agenda she might have. But If the girl is getting married, they just see if the guy is rich or not, nothing else is matter to them.
Thats the mentality most Thai girls are brought up with. The girl marry rich guy, take care their parents (not matter they are well off or poor), take them overseas and restaurant with all guys money. Thats what a Thai girl should do in society. Very wicked ways of having society.
Dating and having relation with Thai girl is fantastic, as they are open minded and fun to be with. but if you are going serious down the path, watch your path (in most cases).
What do you think about Thai women?